No, I am not the 30 something year old woman with a kid. They let me join as the third author to this blog...My name is Kurt and I am a 48 year old gay man. I am single and dating primarily on line, which is a scary thing on its own. I live in an area that is not very gay friendly which makes life more interesting and complicated. I am painfully honest and direct, overly communicative and often lack the use of my filters. Which usually makes my best friend say "EEEWWWW!"